19 May 2006
The women of Lake Murray
Posted by Cally, GFRS volunteerJust as I started writing this weblog, an ant crawled across the screen. In its mouth was a whole other ant and that ant was carrying some other object of equal size in its mouth! Just thought I’d share that…
Big, big visions are swelling deep inside me the longer I’m here, experiencing life with the local people. I can hardly sleep at night sometimes, there’re so many ideas flooding my thoughts!
The thing that stands out most, for me, is the women – the role they play in the community, and the role they wish they could play. I have talked with many of the women and, after hearing their wishes to be included in this project equally (even at all), and seeing that they are not, I decided to organise a meeting. It was just for women, to listen and to share and of course to encourage each other to become involved.
There was supposed to be one woman from each clan, but many didn't attend. Some weren’t allowed (their husbands said no). Others believed that it wasn’t their place to attend, even though they were invited. A few were too shy to join the men (especially men from other clans).
In class, our guest teacher from West Papua was explaining the difference between a ‘product’ and a ‘service’. We went through how a tree, through processes like sawing, carving, etc, becomes a product.
Now those who know me will probably agree I’m not very good at sitting still and staying quiet when I have something to do or say. I noticed that none of the women had answered any of the questions yet, or commented without being asked. Since I knew that women are mainly responsible for the cultivation, harvesting, production and transportation of the local food staple, sago, I deduced that a question about sago was in order, to get them involved.I raised my hand proudly and asked: “Is sago an example of a product?”
Every head turned towards me. Every pair of eyes stared, in shock, including the teacher’s.
“Oh crap,” I thought, “the first thing I've said has been completely wrong, and I'm a blonde woman!”
My cheeks burnt and my heart raced until, after what seemed like an hour, the teacher nodded. “Yes … sago would be an example of a product,” he said.
There was much murmuring, followed by a chorus of “Oh, yes”. I sat back in my chair.
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Comments
I wonder what the local men think about engagin their women more in the whole process? Are they open for it, or is it a matter of potential tensions when volunteers come along and encourage the women to be more engaged?
Anyway, I think it's absolutely wonderful to empower those women who are keen to help.
Go Cally!
Nico
Posted by: Nico at May 20, 2006 6:09 AM
You go Cal!
Posted by: Katie at May 20, 2006 6:22 AM
Cally,
Im so proud of you and your work.
lots of love
yvonne
Posted by: yvonnr at May 20, 2006 9:37 AM
Hi Cal,
You are so the right person for the job up there, I'm so proud of you. It's amazing stuff you're writing about.
Posted by: Belinda at May 21, 2006 11:34 AM
heya cal.
yeee har girl! so glad your beautiful energy is being shared with so many wonderful people!
sending huge hugs and lotsa laughter,
sam and simon. xo
Posted by: Anonymous at May 22, 2006 1:13 AM
Cally,
Great stuff. May you continue to be bitten only by the bug of the beauty of the area, the people and your inspiring energy. (Awww..)
Posted by: Adam at May 22, 2006 1:31 AM
